Empty Restaurant Means Bad Food, by Q. Reyes – Artistic Warfare #74

July 18, 2010 Q. Reyes 1 Comment

I just read this somewhere: There’s nothing like an empty restaurant to persuade you not to go inside.  That’s the truth! We all want what other people want.  That’s the law of demand.  If you want good food, you should go where everyone has discovered where good food exists.

Same thing with men.  Women don’t want that lonely man standing in the corner or sitting at home watching Star Trek reruns online.  Women want that man that is in demand.  They want that exciting guy.  The one that’s going to show them a good time.  Don’t fall for what women “say” they want – you should fall for what they obviously show they want.

Availability is the number one killer of sex appeal.  Men that are too available – are too available for a reason – and women don’t want to find out what that reason is.  You want women to be interested?  Then you’re life better be on and popping!

Most guys I know answer text messages right away.  Like if the girl sending the message is going to die in the next thirty seconds after sending it.  Slow down! Why the rush? She’s not going anywhere!  Think about your reply.  Is it even necessary to reply?  Some women just like the attention.  Don’t fall for that.

RULE:  You receive a text message from a girl you like… WAIT at least thirty minutes before replying.

We men tend to think that if we don’t jump on the first opportunity thrown our way, that we’ll lose it.  The opposite is true.  Being too eager or available is the fastest way to lose an opportunity.  Waiting not only lets her know that you have a life besides her, but it also allows you time to think about your reply.

One thing that’s even worse than replying to a text right away is SENDING THE TEXT IN THE FIRST PLACE!  You desperate man, you!  If she’s interested… She will let you know!!!!

So many of my friends send texts to girls hoping they get a reply.  Sometimes (and I’ll explain when later) it’s okay to initiate a text.  Any other time… DON’T!

If you’re bored, find something else to do rather than sending a text to a girl that don’t care about you.  Please listen: Women get a million texts per second.  Your text message is NOT important to them. At least try to convince yourself of that.  What makes you so different that you’ll interest her with a text message?

Okay, so you sent that text and she replied… so what!!!!??? You’re not special! She probably replies to everyone!  You need to stop the random texting and come up with a game plan.

Ask yourself the following questions:

Who do I want?

What do I want from them?

After you answer this, come up with a plan to get what you want.  Your text has to be perfect! There’s no room for error.  You can’t redo a text.  You have to nail it in the first try.

Second… if she replies… don’t reply back.  Sounds counter-productive, but it works!  Let her wonder what happened.  Always leave her with the last word.  Do this a few times before you evolve and make bigger moves.

If a man is too busy because he lives a great life, then he doesn’t have time to respond to every single text message.  So… let her know you live a great life and you DON’T NEED HER by not replying.  Nothing’s worse than a needy man.  It’s a plain turn off to women.

Next week I’ll discuss what kind of texts to send and when to send them.  In the mean time, take a break from your phone.  As an exercise, for the next week, don’t reply to any text message until you have waited at least thirty minutes.  You need discipline in order to make women happy.  Impulsiveness only leads to misery for both of you.

Also, try to not check your phone for messages every second of the day.  Create a habit of only checking your phone like once per hour or even less.  It’s hard at first, but the results are wonderful.  Anyone important will wait.