Living in the Future, by Martha Thomases – Brilliant Disguise
January 17, 2009 Martha Thomases 14 Comments
Is it Tuesday yet?
The week ahead of us will be an historic one. It’s the first African-American president. It’s the first time since 1977 that we’ve had such young children in the White House.
And it’s the first time we can be sure George W. Bush won’t be President any longer. Even better, it’s the first time Dick Cheney won’t be Vice-President.
It’s going to be a great, come-and-get-it day. You can feel it when you talk to people. According to the evening news, polls show that even people who didn’t vote for him, who disagree with him about issues, think Obama is competent and capable. When there is fighting in the Middle East, the pundits and reporters don’t go to the White House for comment. They go to Blair House.
These same people seem to expect the tone in Washington (and, if we’re lucky, the rest of the country) to change. Obama doesn’t impugn the patriotism of people with whom he disagrees. Instead, he listens to opposing opinions and considers them before he makes a decision. I would imagine that sometimes, he actually changes his point of view. He’s submitted a bail-out proposal with which many people have problems. Instead of telling them, “My way or the highway,” he said (and my apologies that I don’t have an exact quote) that he wants to see other ideas.
Barack Obama won the Presidency by running a different kind of campaign. It ran from the bottom up. Every person who participated in the race was empowered to host a house party, e-mail friends and families, phone bank and travel. Not only did the campaign rely on the usual volunteer activities (such as stuffing envelopes and soliciting donations) but volunteers also contributed ideas, smarts, and experience.
Lots and lots of comic book stories promise, “This is the day that everything changes!” Movie trailers scream, “Nothing will ever be the same again!” There is the unspoken threat that, if you miss out, you’ll never know what’s really happening.
I have another perspective on this. Every single day is the day that everything changes. This includes those crummy days when you feel so rotten that don’t go into work, don’t get out of your pajamas, and maybe don’t even get out of bed. (This also includes those truly fabulous days when you don’t go into work, and don’t get out of bed and don’t wear any pajamas. However, you probably don’t need to be persuaded to enjoy those.)
Every single day, babies are born who will grow up to change the world. Every day, people day whose loss will affect us all.
Your life changes, too. Maybe you don’t know it, but you might meet the person who will hold your hand on your deathbed. You might have the idea that will create a new industry and provide jobs for a zillion people (me, too, please). If nothing else, you’ll breathe another day’s air, watch another day’s television, shed another day’s skin, and all of these things will shape your point of view. You will be more uniquely you.
To change the direction of our country and our planet, we all need to pitch in and work for the Obama administration in the same way we did on the Obama campaign. This means calling him on it when he does something we don’t like (Rick Warren) or appears to be backing off a campaign promise (Gitmo). It means we might have to sacrifice something that benefits us personally, but is in the best interests of the country as a whole (like paying higher taxes).
We can start now. Monday has been designated as a National Day of Service, but the event starts this weekend. Find an activity near you that sounds like fun, and join in.
I, myself, plan to give blood. Not only is this a good thing to do, and I’m donating something that money can’t buy, but afterwards, there will be cookies and juice!
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Media Goddess Martha Thomases is indulging her inner nursery school student.
LCM
January 17, 2009 - 6:55 am
That’s a wonderful idea, darling! And happy pre-inaugeration weekend. We Canadians are excited and happy about this too, sweetie. 🙂
Sending Love
LCM
Walt
January 17, 2009 - 7:07 am
I’m just amazed at everything associated with the inauguration. At work, we’ve been offered excused time to go downstairs to watch it on tv. This hasn’t happened before. This is history and we’re all being encouraged to participate. It’s been 8 years since this has happened. I pray it’s not 8 more before it happens again.
The Other Frank Miller
January 17, 2009 - 7:38 am
Everybody look up, ’cause the sun is shining just for us.
pennie
January 17, 2009 - 8:08 am
Martha: you’re on the money.
This is a special time. Hell, even the tawdry gimmick hawkers jumped all over Obama’s inauguration. Obama soap? It’s available…
New priorities, positive change, music, youth, energy, a guy with listening skills…This is truly an unprecedented time for inclusion, acceptance and involvement. Never thought I’d see the day.
Grassroots from the get-go, this is a time for personal responsibility. Not that it was ever different, but suddenly its fashionable again. Whatever it takes.
Give blood. Give time. Talk to people. Listen. Give a damn. It matters.
Go O.
We all need to buck up. Obama’s predecessor was good at _ucking up.Time for a change–big time.
The Bushies are packing–this time with boxes. Cheney the puppet master lost his joystick. Pass the lube…Wooo-Hoooo!
I know I won’t agree with everything Obama does. But he has the right stuff. Best in years if ever. I have all parts of my anatomy crossed (highly unusual) that it works.
Go O
peace and light,
pennie
johanna
January 17, 2009 - 8:51 am
Martha my dear!
I was reading this column (multi-tasking) with NPR in the background, will.i.am talking to Scott Simon. And I surprised myself when hot tears hit my eyes as your words hit my brain. Thank you.
Earlier this morning, I was thinking of Bush’s “political capital” comments upon “re-election” as compared to Obama’s generous “I’m your president too” statement. Can this really be happening? is our nation finally turning away, turning toward? What a relief Tuesday will be for all.
from the frozen steppes of woodstock,
Johanna
Pat Gaik
January 17, 2009 - 9:04 am
Amen, sister!
Joe in Philly
January 17, 2009 - 3:57 pm
I’d like to give blood but the Red Cross won’t take it from gay men, even those who haven’t slept with anyone recently and even though they take it from straight people who may have slept with hundreds of other straight people in the last two weeks and even though all the blood is tested anyway without exception. If that ever changes, I’ll consider the possibility that there will be real change occurring. Until then, I’ll hold on to my cynicism and skepticism despite the potential shown by the new administration.
Linda Gold
January 17, 2009 - 5:07 pm
They also won’t take blood from any one with tattoos even though most tattoo artists work under conditions more sanitary then the Red Cross.
No one who had had acupuncture either, even just once. Makes you wonder just how much they actually test the stuff after they have it.
I remember my grandfather who was a WWI vet having only contempt for the way the Red Cross treated the doughboys.
Oh, and there’s also the fact that the allow a Red Crescent but not a Red Jewish Star. There’s a lot to dislike.
Martha Thomases
January 17, 2009 - 8:41 pm
Far be it from me to defend the Red Cross. However, I’m donating blood through the hospital where I volunteer. They’ve never asked about acupuncture or tattoos.
Sure, they could be more sensible about the sleeping-with-gay-men thing, and I’d be delighted to know how to go about fixing that. In the meantime, though, there are a lot of people who need blood. Some of them, I know their faces.
Also, there are lots of volunteer activities that don’t involve the Red Cross. Hence, the link above.
pennie
January 18, 2009 - 6:17 am
Here’s an idea I found novel, funny and inspirational: a trans group came up with a program that allows people to go to their local libraries on a pre-arranged date to (temporarily, at that location)c heck out people (rather than books) who volunteered for this purpose. They come from all sorts of experiences, walks of life, cultures, etc. So if (to use a glaring but real caricature) a Wal-Mart mom who has never really encountered or chatted with a Queer or African-American before, wanted to talk to someone face-to-face to ask general Q’s, she could do that. After some initial reservations and amusement, I think if this is what it takes to get people to reach some level of understanding of another group, and it furthers communication and acceptance, why not?
John Tebbel
January 18, 2009 - 7:01 am
The blood supply people killed hundreds (thousands?) by being too loose about things before the deluge and now they’re over on the other side of the line. I predict a regression toward the mean. I suspect carbon-based life-forms are at the bottom of this.
Martha Thomases
January 18, 2009 - 9:07 am
The questions they ask you when you give blood are like the set-up for stand-up comedy.
* Did you go to England and eat beef? Do you have Mad Cow Disease? Do I look like I have Mad Cow? Just a crazy cat.
* Did you ever have sex for money or pay someone to have sex? Hey, I’m married. What do you think?
* Have you ever had sex with a man who had sex for money? Married, remember?
* Have you ever had sex with someone who is bisexual? Not that I know, but men will say anything to have sex. Are you asking me if my husband never lies?
* Have you ever had sex with an IV drug user? See above.
* Have you ever had sex with anyone who ate beef in England? See above.
And so it goes …
pennie
January 18, 2009 - 4:05 pm
“Have you ever had sex in England with a bisexual IV drug user who has sex for money while eating beef…”
}’;>)
John Tebbel
January 19, 2009 - 6:45 am
mmm, beef