How to Manipulate Women, by Q. Reyes – Artistic Warfare #24

May 31, 2009 Q. Reyes 7 Comments

Women think with their emotions, and this is all part of their extraordinary intelligence. They are able to feel their way through life, and this is both a gift and a curse, but either way, it is an advantage for men interested in captivating women.

Men think with their penis, which is a curse. When men stop thinking about the sex for just a moment, then it becomes blatantly obvious how much women need us.

The misconception, by both men and women, alike, is that women are complicated. This is false. Women are simple. All a woman wants is to be happy, and she wants to achieve this through the process of feeling good. Yes, that’s it. Make a women feel good and she’s yours.

Of course, there are many hormonal variants in the way human beings feel, in general, but for the most part, you can influence a woman’s attitude and behavior with simple, proven routines and systems.

Instinctively a woman wants to feel safe and protected, when in contrast a man wants to, usually, protect and safeguard. This basic survival mechanism embedded in the human being, is one of the simplest way to manipulate women.

I use the word manipulate in the positive aspect of its definition, “to manage or influence skillfully.” To take advantage of a woman for individual betterment is not the same as to positively manipulate a woman. Manipulation’s characterization could extend to the influencing of a woman’s emotional state, in order to induce and create joy and happiness for that woman. Negative men will use manipulation in a negative fashion, and that has nothing to do with the manipulation itself, but rather with the person doing the manipulating.

Women my claim they want independence and self-sufficiency, but in reality everyone needs someone. Humans would die without other human contact. It’s important not to hurt a woman’s pride or ego, however, by insinuating that a woman needs a man in particular, but the fact is that the prepared man is able to manipulate a woman at will, every time.

To influence a woman to feel good, men must break down and forget everything they think they know about women. A woman wants to feel special, unique, and beautiful, and if you’re a man wanting a woman, you must make her feel that.

A woman wants to feel she’s intelligent, so give her the opportunity to show you her mind. Listen to her words and their meaning, and nothing else. Don’t try to save the day by giving her advice; she just wants you to listen.

LISTENING is the first step in the manipulation of a woman. When you truly listen to her, you are respecting her, and she will feel important.

Keeping quiet while a woman is talking does not mean keeping silent the entire time. The next step after listening is to ASK QUESTIONS. Asking questions – the right, interesting questions, will make a woman feel that you care and that you’re interested. Don’t ask her simple “yes” or “no” questions, instead try to formulate your inquiries in a way that will spark her to think and to give you her opinion.

Beyond the listening and asking questions, you must LOOK YOUR BEST. This doesn’t mean you have to be good-looking, it just means you have to look like you take care of yourself. If a woman perceives that you respect yourself enough to wear clean clothes, smell good and groom yourself, then she will feel you’re a motivated individual. The perception of motivation and ambition is important to a woman, since it’s a great indicator of your ability to protect, safeguard and provide. Getting in physical shape is a plus, since it demonstrates that you are disciplined enough to take care of your body, and women like this – plus you’ll look good and will be more confident.

To BE A PROVIDER does not mean that you meet a woman and you immediately start paying her bills. It means that while you have that woman’s attention, you make everything about her. You provide her with all of your attention.

Before you get an opportunity to do all of the above, you need to first GET HER ATTENTION and you accomplish this by ignoring her. Sounds counter-productive, but women are initially attracted to men that ignore them. The psychology behind all of it is simple: Every woman thinks she’s special and unique, and when you don’t provide certainty that she’s all of this and more, then you’re different than what she’s used to, and you get her attention, whether she realize it or not.

To BE DIFFERENT means that you don’t ask, say or act the same as others. Don’t ask a woman’s name, or how she’s doing, or tell her she’s beautiful. They hear that all the time from insincere men wanting to get in their pants. Don’t complement a woman when you first meet her. Have her earn a compliment by forcing her to be extraordinary. Being extraordinary will make her feel good and accomplished. Be different than most men by offering introductions and conversations that she won’t soon forget. Don’t talk about you, at all. Make it about her.

To MAKE IT ABOUT HER is not necessarily about her good side, per se. It’s about treating her as your equal and not thinking that she’s dumb enough to think you care about her, when you just met her. Point out some of her slight flaws, and watch as her attention fully directs towards you. When I say “slight” flaws, I don’t mean that if she’s in a wheel chair you call her a cripple. I mean that you should point out that she has a broken nail, that her hair is a little out of place or that her lipstick is smeared. Use simple conversation starters that will have her intimidated about all her other flaws that you might be able to see. Make her feel that you see right through her.

TALK TO HER FRIEND FIRST and win her friend’s trust. Don’t go to the prettiest woman in the room as soon as you see her. That’s what most men do, and it doesn’t make you different. Rather, talk to women in order of looks, starting with the ugliest one in the room. This psychologically sends the signal to the prettier women in the room that you don’t care about their looks, which makes you apparently different than other men, and evens out the playing field.

When you do get the opportunity to talk to your target woman, CUT HER OFF SHORT. Don’t talk, talk, talk, and talk yourself out of her interest. After a few questions, find a reason to take off unexpectedly and leave her with a posed question unanswered. This is especially effective if your excuse is a bad one. For example, you ask her about what her mother (not her) does for a living, and as she begins to answer you pull out your cellphone and tell her you have to make a phone call, and then walk away as you dial. Don’t look back.

If you pull the above stunt right, when you run into her later on, she will remember you and will subconsciously feel that you have a pending conversation on hold. She’ll be more willing to continue allowing you into her world at this point, that if you never gave her an opportunity to miss how interesting you are.

If you don’t run into her again, then it doesn’t matter, since you DON’T PUT ALL YOUR EGGS IN ONE BASKET. This doesn’t mean that you’re a player or a womanizer, it just means that there are millions and millions of good-looking, interesting women out there, and if you think that your only chance in the world is with that one girl in front of you at that moment, then you lack the self-esteem and confidence necessary to be an attractive man to women.

SELF-ESTEEM and CONFIDENCE are the ultimate elements when it comes to woman manipulation. If you don’t believe that you can manipulate any woman at any time, then you can’t and you won’t. Manipulate yourself before you attempt to manipulate others.

Men must also be careful from manipulating themselves into situations they can’t handle. If you use your powers for positive results then your outcome will be a positive one. The manipulation of women should only be used when the goal is to provide a woman the feeling of joy and happiness. Nothing else.