How to Seduce Women PART 2, by Q. Reyes – Artistic Warfare #54

December 27, 2009 Q. Reyes 12 Comments

Part one of this article didn’t settle too well with some of the female readers of this forum, so here I am putting bits and pieces for part two, since after all, I am a persistent man (or stubborn, depending on how you look at it).

One thing I’ve learned in my limited life experience is that you have to be passionate about anything you set out to do – that includes women. You must love women… I’ll rephrase that: You must be absolutely obsessed with women in order to be truly successful at seducing them.

Women are smarter than men. So it becomes a matter of: How do you outsmart someone smarter than you? The answer is simple: Admit to it. They’re smarter. Just because you admit it, doesn’t mean you’re submitting to it.

By writing about this subject I have no intentions in objectifying women or painting the picture that all women are created equal, because I think we all agree that is not the case. What I am writing about is something more simple and closer to the human nature of it all. I’m talking about allowing yourself to think like a woman.

Now you might be thinking, “think like a woman? That sounds kind of gay.” But in fact it is the opposite. Thinking like a woman requires you to think with your emotions. To think in a more compassionate way about everything that surrounds you. It’s not about money, or power and it’s certainly not about sex. It’s about that intimate connection through communication – that deeper connection that makes us all human.

Women are a special being that need your undivided attention. Women are plants. They require the right amount of water and sunlight to survive. Too much of anything will make them wither. As a man, you must learn balance in order to maintain a woman happy.

Of course there are other concepts that women expect from someone interested in making them happy. Some of those things being loyalty, honesty, and truthfulness, to name a few. Yet, there is something that lies deeper within a woman’s psych, or as some of us call it, a woman’s soul. That thing being making a woman feel uniquely special.

Now, how do you make a woman feel uniquely special? Simple. Be honest. Let her know how great she is. How important she is. How you need her so. If you’re able to carry these messages in an honest to goodness fashion to a woman that is open and willing to listen, you’ve got her!

Keep in mind, however, that not all women have the same brain. You will deal with women that might be on different levels of the intelligence scale. I know I explained that women are smarter than men, but that is speaking in general terms. On an average, this is true, yet on an individual basis, you might need to measure how much is too much.

Simply put: Don’t compliment a woman that already believes the compliment. A true compliment comes from the heart, and it usually should land on a woman unexpectedly. If you meet a woman with beautiful eyes, don’t tell her that! That’s what every man has probably been telling her all her life. Instead, look for that subtle part of her that hardly gets noticed. If you look hard enough, you will always find something great about a woman. Something some men will fail to notice because they’re always jumping the gun and giving compliments on the most obvious things.

I like to compliment women on their sense of style, or their ability to multi-task, or even on how much they know about a particular subject matter. Basically, things that let her know that you’re looking beyond the obvious physical attributes. Make her feel special beyond physicality. She will appreciate this. Besides, she deserves it.

For now, go practice. Let a woman know that you appreciate her intelligence. Call your mother, your sister, your cousin. Tell a woman something nice about her brain, her personality, her style, or the amazing way she carries herself. Give a little to a woman, and trust me, you’ll get a lot more in return.