She Wants It, But Doesn’t Need It, by Q. Reyes – Artistic Warfare #76

August 1, 2010 Arthur Tebbel 1 Comment

A lot of guys confuse a woman wanting something with her NEEDING it.  This is a huge mistake, because there’s a big difference between the two.

When a woman WANTS something, she will let it be known.  Not always in a direct manner, but if you pay close attention you’ll figure out what she wants.  On the contrary, when a woman NEEDS something, most likely she won’t rely on a man to provide that for her.  Where does this leave man?  Simple: Not being a necessity.

Of course, I’m not speaking from a biological perspective.  I’m strictly talking from an emotional point of view.  When a man starts to think that a woman needs him, he’s often met with a rough awakening.  A woman not needing us makes us feel not empowered.  On contrary, the admittance and acceptance of not being needed gives us unlimited power.

Why is accepting our limitations so important?  Because it allows us to work within our means.  A woman doesn’t need you to call her, she WANTS you to call her… so what happens if you don’t give her what she wants?

Most guys think that not giving a woman what she wants automatically sends her away.  Not necessarily true.  The depravation of giving a woman everything she asks for is actually healthy if you’re hunting for her interest.

As humans, we gravitate and desire what we can’t have.  It’s the law of the universe, and there isn’t something we can do consciously to change this.  Women, like any human, want what they can’t have.  If you give her everything she wants, she will have no interest in you.  This sounds contradictory to common sense, but I’ll explain further.

A woman will complain about a man not calling her enough or calling her too much.  The reason she doesn’t like someone contacting her too much, is self-explanatory: it’s annoying.  If she’s interested, she will let it be known.

But, if she’s complaining about the guy not calling at all, that entire reason is different… it’s called curiosity.  That’s why she should never know the reason WHY you don’t call her.  You need to let her powerful imagination come up with stories and reasons why she doesn’t get that call she wants so badly.

Keep in mind that she doesn’t NEED the call… so don’t get desperate and occupy your time doing things that keep your mind busy in order to avoid calling her.  She WANTS the call – regardless on how long it takes.  It could be a year later, and she will feel good about the call.  The name of the game is patience.

Women are good about not NEEDING – don’t think she needs gifts and flowers, for example.  She WANTS what’s behind those things – the THOUGHT.  If you’re able to give a woman the THOUGHT of what she WANTS, then in essence you’re giving her everything she NEEDS.

PROMISE a woman the world; she will wait for it happily by your side.  GIVE a woman the world; she doesn’t need you anymore.