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I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar, by Michael Davis – Straight No Chaser #260 | @MDWorld

March 15, 2012 Michael Davis 9 Comments

I’m a big fan of women.

If I’ve said it once I’ve said it a thousand times, I was raised by three women, my mother, my sister and my grandmother.

My sister and grandmother died violent deaths.

What I’ve never written about is my beloved cousin Dee Dee. She and I were best friends growing up. She was my age and we always had the best time together.

Saturday October 12, 1996 my great grandmother Sophia Davis Jackson was laid to rest. “Grandma” is what everyone called her. She was born a child of formers slaves, 100 years before. On the day of Grandma’s  funeral, Dee Dee disappeared and has not been seen since.

Everyone in my family knows that Dee Dee is dead. Everyone in my family knows that she was killed.

Her disappearance did not make the papers and the police did not do a motherfucking thing to find her. She did not end up on a milk carton nor did the Today Show do a segment on her.

No Black women or in fact ANY woman of color ever get the coverage pretty white women do when they disappear. They just don’t and if you think they do then you are a fucking uninformed asshole.

Alas, Dee Dee and women of color disappearing is a article for another time. I bring up my cousin, grandmother and cousin to make it clear that I know a lot about violence against women.

I know much more than I’d like because I’ve lived it.

The Violence Against Women Act is receiving new opposition from Republicans.

I would think that this was something both parties would agree on. I was wrong.

How in the world can anyone with a mother be against this?

The main reason for resistance from Republicans is that a few new provisions in the VAWA add protections for undocumented people (such as illegal immigrants), the LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) community, and also those who reside on Indian reservations. These proposed changes have made people, such as anti-immigrant Republican Jeff Sessions, cringe. Session stated that, “there are matters put on that bill that almost seem to invite opposition.”
Who THE FUCK cares if it’s motherfucking lesbian woman attacked? She’s a human being for god’s sake.

This is yet another reason why I think that the GOP is a bunch of heartless motherfucking racists and homophobes.

Take me to task on this at your own risk-three women in my life were killed like dogs in the street. Their lives are no more or less important than an lesbian or a immigrant, no one’s life is worth more than any other person’s life.

If you think so, I don’t pity you, I pity the women in you life who just may meet someone that thinks like you and that person decides to take your loved one’s life because they do think like you.

 

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  1. Martha Thomases
    March 16, 2012 - 5:33 am

    Damn you, MOTU! I wrote about the same thing for my column tomorrow, and now you’re going to get all the best comments!

  2. Vinnie Bartilucci
    March 16, 2012 - 6:34 am

    We’ve reached the point where we may never see the parties cooperate ever again. If one party advocated a law that legally supported the idea that water was wet, the other would find a way to claim it discriminated against fish or something.

    Having said that, I would not be surprised if the amendment about illegals was added to the law deliberately to poke a stick at the republican side of the room. I could easily see someone decide to use the bill as a way to make the other side look foolish by “having to” come out against it because it mentioned one of the knee-jerk buzzwords.

  3. Jeremiah Avery
    March 16, 2012 - 6:44 am

    My condolences, MOTU. I also have “lived” with that sort of violence and when I read about the opposition to renewing this act, I thought that the opponents should have a rusty pipe inserted into them, repeatedly. A violent response, shame on me, but certain things do push my buttons.

    Some of these politicans talk about how oppressive some of the countries in the Mid-East are (and they have a point) but if you look at what the ones here are saying, it’s not far off from what the theocracies over there are spouting.

  4. Jeremiah Avery
    March 16, 2012 - 6:49 am

    Vinnie, I agree that the concept of cooperation is on life support. Some of them need to look up “compromise” and realize it doesn’t mean “I get everything I want and you get nothing.”

    I’ve seen interviews with former Congressmen and they commented on the current hostility. They said how back in the day, there certainly were heated debates on the floor, but afterward, some would go out for a drink or dinner and figure out how to get the bill in a condition to where it could get passed. Their families would mingle and such.

  5. Mike Gold
    March 16, 2012 - 11:25 am

    My dear BFAM — Exactly what has the Republican Party done in the past several years to make you think the Violence Against Women Act was something both parties would agree on?

    Vinnie, I take issue with your thought that, perhaps, the amendment covering illegals was there to provoke the Republicans. If the idea is that women are human then it doesn’t matter if they are American citizens, Indians, Hoosiers, illegal aliens, or space aliens: they all deserve certain rights as human beings.

    The Republicans, with their lies about contraception, abortion, pornography, and education, have a broader plan. No, it’s not to return this nation back to the 1950s. It’s to return this nation back to 1918. If you-all will recall, back in 1918 women didn’t have the vote. And this concept could not come back fast enough to please the Elephants.

  6. Reg
    March 16, 2012 - 6:03 pm

    Michael, I fully realize that any expressions of condolence and sympathy can in no way serve to lessen the pain…but please accept them in our desire that they do what they can’t.

    Deeply sorry for all of the loss that you’ve had to deal with, Brother.

    With respect for the unfortunate truth that you shed light on as it concerns how the missing persons from non-White communities are pretty blatantly ignored by the mass media, TVOne is making a valiant effort to right that wrong.

    http://tvone.tv/shows/find-our-missing

  7. Danny Donovan
    March 16, 2012 - 9:07 pm

    My condolences on your losses Michael, and I thank you for yours. I haven’t had the strength to be on Facebook much in the past few days to do more than check messages, but your comment was much appreciated.

    For one, you are absolutely right, for every “Natalie” or “Rebecca” or “Suzie” that goes missing in places like cabo or some exotic location on spring break, they’re is a Shante, Juliana, etc that disappear right here on American streets and no one seems to even care.

    The GOP makes me sick on a regular basis, and their continued war on women, people of color, and anyone that doesn’t fit into their white christian world is going to either bring about a new civil war, or come November we’ll be seeing a lot of people going home.

    My wife was subjected to serious abuse growing up, she’s watched her mother abused since she was 4 years old. I am not even allowed to watch the news in front of her anymore because every time a GOP asshole speaks, it makes her cry.

  8. MOTU
    March 18, 2012 - 2:51 am

    Danny,

    Your wife cries because she has a heart something missing (along with a soul) from many on the Right.

  9. Whitney
    March 21, 2012 - 11:49 pm

    I’m so sorry, Dear. I didn’t know.

    Everything you say in this is right.

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